forehead kisses + giveaway winner announcement



Think about it, every second we spend with a loved one is a chance to tell them how we feel about them. What if it's the last chance we have? It's a scary thought, but it's our reality, since we never really know when our time is up.

Friday my son turns twenty. I know, huh? It seems like only yesterday I was giving him forehead kisses and wishing him good night. He was such an inquisitive, blonde-ball-of-questions, following me around asking me, "why, where, and who" all day long.

"Why does Santa come down the chimney?" "Who makes chips?" "Where do babies come from?" "When can we get a dog?" "Why do you put that stuff on your eyelashes?"

We are off for a bit of adventure and birthday celebrations, before we settle him into his new dorm. I feel like now I am the one who asks all the questions.

"Do you think you will like your new school?" "What did you think of orientation?" "Will you get a chance to meet your roommates beforehand?" "What made you want to switch majors?"

Even for a writer, some emotions are just too big for expression. Trying to put down on paper my feelings for one of my children, is like trying to squeeze the Titanic into a little glass bottle. Impossible. So I will simply seize the opportunity to say the three words that say it all: I love you - and I'll sneak in a forehead kiss!

Thank you to everyone who entered the cookbook giveaway by Katie Quinn Davies. The winner chosen by Random.org is: Tina of The Enchanted Home. Enjoy, Tina!

On a final note, thank you to all of your very sweet comments, emails and encouragement this week. Whoever said true friendships cannot be formed by blogging, obviously has never been part of the community. I love you guys. xoxo






19 comments :

  1. I won I won I won!! Woo hoo, so happy. Thanks Debby, cannot wait to get the book!
    Love your post today, reminds me of how much I miss my kids being young but to try and enjoy all the fun chapters in their life now as they are young adults. Its hard to say goodbye to their youth but if they are thriving and doing well....we know we have done something right. Best of luck to your son as he settles into his new dorm and a very happy birthday to him!

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  2. You are so right, Debby to remind us that time is short. Each day is a gift. My son is turning 21 this spring and for a short time living at home and attending local college. I am so happy to have a little more time with him...he is a great young man. Enjoy and relish each moment...they go so quickly!

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  3. A great reminder to savor every moment, they pass to quickly!

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  4. Debby your opening paragraph is one that people need to be reminded of ~ the reality that we (like all things) come with an expiration date ... it's just not stamped on our packaging.

    WOW 20 ... what a magical decade your son is entering... so many new adventures and things, places and people to be discovered. Wishing you both a fabulous time together!! Hugs and blessings, HHL

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  5. Have fun on your Sons birthday. And you are so right about blogging, I've made some wonderful friends.
    Have a fab Thursday Hun xoxo
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  6. Aww. Best Wishes for a wonderful birthday celebration and move in. Thinking of you!!

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  7. YEAH TINA! I know she will use that cookbook to the hilt and make lovely dinner parties!

    I love your post today my dear, as always. The photos are right on GORGEOUS, the sentiments so true. As a writer, I am learning that LARGE words, and even archaic uses are not what impress the reader. It is the right words, the right imagery. We can do it, we are attempting it and every so often I know I have a hit on the spot, for at least MYSELF. Life is one big rough draft.

    Peace, Anita

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  8. Happy Birthday to your son...and congrats to Tina!

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  9. It is so true, we need to take more time to express our love to our family and friends! reading this was the perfect way for me to start my day :)
    love this elegant post... your style is truly exquisite <3

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  10. Seeing our children growing into the people they were always meant to be...watching them sail off into their lives...it's a unique blessing. And I smiled...not at the inability to describe how we feel about our children (some things are not meant to be put into words), but at the fact of you being the one who asks all the questions now. That really grabbed me...I do the same thing with my children!

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  11. So many true and thought-provoking words. you have chosen wonderful images too especially the vintage luggage and the beautiful hairstyle - so feminine.
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  12. So true. My youngest just turned 22 last week and is off to Australia for a semester (in the heat and fires and poisonous critters, Yikes!). I have one more week with him until May and I'm missing him already! And giving hugs while I can! By the way, your photographs always make me stop and breathe...so lovely.
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  13. You make me want to have kids so bad. The love you have for each other is not of this world.

    And we love you, too.

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  14. Debby,
    Enjoy your getaway with your sweet son. Doesn't time fly? 20 years in the blink of an eye. Our youngest will turn 30 next month...yikes, is that possible?
    I agree, blogging friends are wonderful and I've always thought that if they lived in my area we'd be lunching and visiting all the time.
    Karen at Garden, Home and Party

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  16. Oh, yes, so many questions to answer and to make, too.
    But we have so much fun in the process, don't we?
    Love coming here and see your beautiful images, always find romance.
    Have a nice weekend and a blessed new year.
    Tereza

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  17. Hey Debby, I too have a 20 year old son going on 21 and my heart just bursts with every emotion when I think about how he's feeling and getting on. It's truly scary and powerful, as they go off and live their own lives and leave us. Yet they are always there and all the questions answered and hard work was worth it when they can be independent and successful. Go ahead, take the credit and be proud!
    xo
    Sharon

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