Confession 2: I could get my butt in action, and go out early before work today, but I would have to to go out into bitter, windy, freezing, sideways rain - the one that blows your umbrella inside out. My Christmas wreath is sliding back and forth across my front door with the wind, driving my dog bonkers. I'm gonna nest for a bit before I HAVE to go out into the madness.
Confession 3: I don't know what the heck to buy my son. He needs a car. He needs his college tuition paid. Everything else seems frivolous. I'm giving him a J Crew wallet filled with spending money. Why are girls so much easier to buy for? I do have some big plans for my son's birthday in January though, stayed tuned for that one.
Confession 4: I'm not a bit stressed. I suppose I should be, but after the challenging year we have had nothing phases me. We endured a brutal assault, ongoing PTSD, a health crisis, lawyer antics, and financial bullying.
I plan to toast my loved ones, kick up my stockinged feet, RELAX, and turn up the Christmas music. Most of all I plan to cherish my blessings and not to worry about the small stuff, because that is what the difficulties taught me. So, if a little elf were to show up to help - I might send him on an errand or two, but then encourage him to put his feet up and chill with a cup of hot cocoa. It's all good.
How are your preparations coming along? Are you ready or are you winging it? Have a wonderful and festive weekend, Everyone!
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Good luck getting it all done! I know, it's crazy how fast this month went by.
ReplyDeleteI'm loving these inspiration images - fur trimmed stockings and frenchies playing in the house? awesome.
Chic on the Cheap
I am having a similiar Christmas. My year was not as traumatizing as yours but a very painful stressful one no less. I am trying to have a little Christmas spirit for the sake of my 4 year old but other than that its going to be a casual Christmas and my gift to myself is ordering a Christmas dinner that i just have to heat up because otherwise there probably would be not time to even purchase the ingredients.
ReplyDeleteWishing you a very Merry Christmas and much joy and happiness in the new year :)
Christmas does seem to be coming really quickly! Luckily, I'm in good shape with just a few DIY presents to make & presents to wrap. Best wishes for a very Merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteThat's the best attitude to have Debby - why stress? It's just one day!! I'm all ready now, just got to get baking & cooking at the weekend, but that's the bit I love.
ReplyDeleteHave a fab weekend Hun xoxo
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I love doing things in the last minute...why extend the stress? I'm wishing you a happy happy Merry Christmas!
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Sharon
i am exactly where you are- totally not prepared!
ReplyDeleteDebbie....this year I just didn't have the energy to do anything. I didn't even put up the tree. I bought some poinsettias and that's about it.
ReplyDeleteI like your attitude about this Debby...whether it's "winging it" or just deciding to forego the madness just to say "here I bought this", taking it easy, enjoying the music, and most especially being with those you love...that's really all that's necessary. Buying for boys? Yes -- hard!! I've got 2 and nothing I've got them is "wow" exciting but they're 21 and 24 -- and money/gift cards...you can't go wrong! I like what you've done for your son...I'm pretty sure he will too! Skip the stress, and just be merry!!!
ReplyDeleteGood morning dear heart,
ReplyDeleteWELL, I am not EVEN prepared. But I have no one to prepare for except RUBEN!!!!! AND WOULD YOU KNOW, that the ONE gift I ordered on-line for him WON'T EVEN GET HERE UNTIL AFTER CHRISTMAS????
I have been working on my paper wedding dress for a shop for days now. My house is about as decorated as I can get, but I did enjoy a cup of tea by the fireplace yesterday, EARLY in the morning. I am grateful for it all.
BLESSINGS OF REST and peace to you darling Debby. I look forward to another year with YOU! Anita
I know, I know...this season has been extremely difficult hasn't it? But, the spirit is alive. Even if late. Sending my best wishes for the happiest holiday season ever !!
ReplyDeleteMy tree has been up for a week now, undecorated and sad. But I'm accepting it is what it is and letting myself enjoy the season of Christ and not the hoopla. It's hard, but worth it.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you could use a break! And I actually like the idea of a wallet filled with spending money for an older boy. Really clever! Happy Holidays!
ReplyDeleteLexi @ Glitter, Inc.
Thinking about you lady! But so glad that you're in great spirits and not stressed :) Sending you lots of love and happiness for the holidays! xoxo, Julie
ReplyDeleteSo glad you're not stressed. I feel like this is the time when people are, when we should actually just be loving the couple of days we may have with our families and friends! I hope your Christmas is wonderful! (Sounds like the prefect gift for your son!) xoxo
ReplyDeleteGood for you that you're not stressed! Love the idea of the wallet with money in it! Hope you have a great Christmas.
ReplyDeleteloved your post....i too, am having a super over-worked , too fast paced kind of holiday....and i'm completely NOT ready either....but for some reason, i'm not stressing and know it will work out by the grace of the good Lord....
ReplyDeletehang in there too....2013 will be a great yr and we have to keep on looking forward with a positive, faithful attitude.
Sounds like you've got the right frame of mind!
Have a wonderful holiday....i always love your posts and pics but never have time to comment!
all the best...
This was so funny and its so great you are not stressed. I am a little bit but near the end so its all good. I love that first picture, those dogs are so cute. I think the wallet with money is perfect. That is all my kids want, money and giftcards!
ReplyDeleteThat's the attitude to have! No need to stress; i'm sure you'll get it all done and no big deal if you don't either, right? After all Christmas is about what's in your heart and not "all the other stuff". My decor this Christmas was quite simple, but I love it and so do the boys. I still have to finish wrapping gifts and then I can relax:-) Merry Christmas to you and your family Debbie. XX
ReplyDeleteLove how you think Debby..so glad you are not stressing, life is too short to sweat the small things and in the big picture, those are all small things. The big things are that you have your health and are surrounded by those that love you and that you love right back:) I have kind of adopted a less stressed out attitude too.....and its pretty liberating to not freak out over every thing that didn't happen, granted I have my share of stress but I am going a little easier on myself this year:) It feels good and hopefully its going to become a habit!!
ReplyDeleteI loved this post because it made me laugh and we could all identify with it on some level...kids LOVE money, and I bet that will thrill him. Last if you happen to find that magical little elf...would you send him my way, I have a looooong laundry list!
I can't believe Christmas is just a few days away. I'll be using this weekend to finish up my Christmas preparations. Have a lovely weekend!
ReplyDeleteI'm totally winging it, and was determined not to get stressed, but unlike you, my feathers are a bit ruffled. Maybe you can channel a bit of your calm through the screen to me? Have a wonderful holiday!
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Oh dearest Debby .. how I use to love the adrenalin of last minute shopping, prep etc. Now a days I do have to plan and complete things before the madness takes people over in a shopping frenzy. But like you I have realized it's not about the "display" or mountainous gift pile ... it's about actually enjoying friends and family and being thankful to have shelter, food. and clothing ~ and a gift or two under the tree that has some real meaning. I think the gift for your son is a fabulous example of meaning.
ReplyDeleteWishing you and your family, peace, love, joy, great health and abundance in all that you need. Hugs, C. (HHL)
I am so ready for 2013, Debby. I look forward to more of your beautiful post.
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas and Happy Holidays.
Teresa
xoxo
Debby,
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you've got the exact priorities in place and honestly, your kids (from what you've shared) will enjoy their mom being relaxed and loving way more than any little gift you might buy and wrap. You're setting a great example of how to deal with life's curve balls.
Have a Merry Christmas and enjoy your family.
Karen at Garden, Home and Party
I know, where did Christmas come from? I barely manage to put up a little tree and buy my guy a gift before being laid up. But this year it's all about counting my blessings and not stressing over the small stuff either. Just a bit of together time. Have a wonderful Christmas xo
ReplyDeleteGood morning precious one! THANK YOU FOR VISITING YESTERDAY! I will be back for your next post...Anita
ReplyDeleteI think a J.Crew wallet filled with spending money is a fantastic and generous present! :)
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