I had a horrible migraine over the weekend. I come downstairs, hair sticking up in every direction, wondering if the pain will ever subside when my daughter (and fellow sweet lover), exclaims that we should start eating healthier.
I'm thinking...Here we go again. I'm game, but wondering how long it will be until one of us craves some sugar.
The next day I hit the market and fill my cart with fruits and veggies and forgo the crackers, desserts and french breads that are calling my name. We are not even half way through our dinner of salmon, sautéed mushrooms and green salad when she announces we should go get ice cream.
Me: "I thought we were on a healthy kick?"
Daughter: "The ice cream stand closes in a week. I NEED sorbet. Sorbet is not that bad."
I'm thinking I have a blog design to do and am so far behind in blog posts but don't want to miss an opportunity to spend time with her (plus, I know she is relentless and she also gives into my requests when I NEED ice cream).
It's an unseasonably warm October night and it seems everyone and their brother has had the same idea. There are only two windows open and the line isn't moving. A drizzle begins and we stand there while wet pellets drop onto our heads and shoulders. She begins to get nervous that the sorbet might be sold out for the season and starts texting her friend her works there to see if sorbet is available.
Ten minutes go by and we still haven't moved. The woman ordering is stocking up on quarts of every flavor because, you know, God forbid she should run out over the winter and have to go the market. I overhear her order and am surprised that someone would pay $49.50 for ice cream. Perhaps she needs an intervention for her sweet tooth as well.
The mosquitos start biting and I'm thinking we are going to get West Nile Virus over stupid ice cream.
Twenty minutes go by and we've moved an inch. We've tweeted, checked emails, sent texts and debated whether or not the yellow lab on the leash is getting any ice cream out of his owners.
It's a good forty minutes before we reach the window. My daughter orders her sorbet only to be told they are out for the season. Deflated. She settles on another flavor and decides she is pissed off. I'm pissed off too because we're tight like that.
Sure we stood in the rain, got eaten alive and her sweet tooth didn't get exactly what it was looking for. It was worth it just to sneak a look at my daughter, under the lights, half child, half woman and flashback to all the times we've gone for ice cream since she was a tiny tot. She stood next to me laughing and smiling and for that, I would stand in the rain any day of the week.




It's these types of moments that I hope to have one day. I wish my mum and sisters were closer to do things like this with. Beautifully written Debby xoxox
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So sweet.......your daughter is lucky to have you and you she. Funny how these little impromptu moments become ones we hold onto and look back on..I have many with my boys and smile at their recollection.
ReplyDeleteIce cream always makes things a little better. The empty carton of Ben and Jerrys in my freezer will attest to it don't ask why its in the freezer and not in the garbage (maybe to remind me that I really didn't eat the whole thing) lol.
I LOVE the pictures....soooo gorgeous. You have my dreaming of eating ice cream strolling down a chic Parisian street, ahhhhhh!
YOU are a fabulous storyteller my dear.
ReplyDeleteListen....your life, every bit of it, is SPECIAL like a jewel. With your passion and talent to write, these gems you give us were not born easily, were they? They were created like gems in the earth, through time, rough elements and environment, but the yield is a sparkling jewel. I love the stories of your daughter and you. This is a sweet tale, with a very important ending. I can see a child's book made with this...I can see the illustration in my mind right now.
Bless you. Thank you for all your help, Debby. AND...make your own sorbet! Got to Trader Joe's. Get their frozen cut up mango. Put some in a good blender with just a touch of unsweetened orange juice. Blend. Freeze. Eat. Smile. Carry on.
Anita
My daughter is moving back to our city this week and while I am thrilled, I know that she and I share a love for sweets....mostly ice cream. She is my partner in crime! I am so excited to once again share chick flicks, shopping, and decorating ideas with her...but I fear the SCOOP. Creating memories...no matter the variety...is so important. Hang in there Debby!
ReplyDeleteHeavenly! Merci for the quick trip to Paris! XX
ReplyDeleteI have a weakness when it comes to ice cream Debby! Hope your migraine has passed, sometimes they take a few days to recover from.
ReplyDeleteHave a fab Tuesday Hun xoxo
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You will remember that trip for ice cream forever. If it was just a regular visit their wouldn't be the memories. You are so right about spending the time with your daughter and letting the other things going. Such a blessing to have a good relationship with your children.
ReplyDeleteI love my mother/daughter moments! Bonding over ice cream, or anything at all for that matter, is one of my favorite things ever. You tell the best stories~thank you!
ReplyDeleteI love watching your daughter grow into a young woman as we hear your stories and beautiful thoughts. I love that you love spending time with her, and vice versa. Got your email. SOOOOO perfect!!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet and special story! I hope your migraine feels better. It's such an awful pain.
ReplyDeleteI'm with you, when your adult children want to spend time with you, no matter what duty calls, you drop it and enjoy each minute with them. Waiting for ice cream would be fun, provided of course that the rain hadn't started and that the mosquitoes weren't hungry.
ReplyDeleteWonderful pictures, thank you.
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Such a great post Debby and those are special mother/daughter times the two of you spend together. You will always treasure those...both of you. As far as ice cream goes...I can never say no! I do love my ice cream. Debby, you need to write a book. You are an amazing writer, a great story teller, and funny! How about a coffee table book? That way you can include your gorgeous photography!
ReplyDeleteWhen you have ot have ice cream, you just have to have ice cream. Now I am craving some. Btw, those crpes look amazing too.
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Teresa
xoxo butter pecan.
My favorite food;) Loved this story...I can relate!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the beautiful images too!
I love how you turned that pain in the petunia moment, into a beautiful memory of your daughter :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful story! Beautiful pictures, too!
ReplyDeleteKaren T.
So sweet! I'm with you. You should never pass up ice cream and QT with L :) xoxo
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet and extraordinary story! Excellent pictures, as well! I trust your headache feels preferred. It's quite an impressive atrocious agony.
ReplyDeleteThat's so beautiful, Debby. I wonder how many times my Mum's looked at me & thought that....? Such a lovely thought!!
ReplyDelete~ Clare x