Let's face it... at one time or another we have all been played. Sure there are decent devoted men but amongst them the players are circling looking to see who they can prey upon. They juggle several relationships effortlessly with exclamations of, "You are the only one for me." At some point, their deception is revealed leaving the women to realize that they have been sharing "Mr. Right," and that they are clearly not, "only one for him."
What blows my mind is how a large majority of the women will blame one another instead of the man. This is a diversion tactic the player uses to keep the women focused on each other as opposed to his act of betrayal. How can we blame the other woman when she clearly is in standing in our shoes? No one understand the hurt, betrayal, and lack of trust that you are feeling better than she does because she's feeling the exact same pain. She is not the cause.... she is also a victim. We should have compassion for her because she too has been hurt.
Why do you think women will sometimes blame the other female and not the man? Have you ever been guilty of this? Do you think men who have been played react the same way and blame the other male?
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